Showing posts with label motherhood. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motherhood. Show all posts

Friday, April 23, 2010

If

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or, being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on";

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings - nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run -
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man my son!

(a classic poem by Rudyard Kipling)

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Smokin' Hot

One of my perks on being pregnant is that I tend to get all my cravings in just a snap. It seems like I have a magic wand that makes people eager to please my indulgences. Like I ask for pizza or sundae or kinilaw na squid and then it would be on my table right away.

Lucky me? Not so, because my tummy gets bigger and bigger!

As a result, I need to have a fashion overhaul. Hubby said I shouldn’t wear my old fitting jeans again as it might throttle our baby. Instead, I should buy new suitable clothes for an expecting mom. I totally agree. Shopping here I come!

Being pregnant doesn't mean I shouldn't feel confident, stylish, and desirable. So, I envision myself to look smokin' hot like my celebrity style twin and also a hot momma of two - Nicole Richie!

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Pregnancy Survey

Is this your first baby? Yes!!!!

Were you trying to get pregnant? Yes for a year.

How far along were you when you found out? 5 or 6 Weeks.

What was your reaction? Amazed, excited, and scared all at the same time.

Who was the first person you told? After my husband Mark, my sister Jill.

How did you tell the father? I texted him saying “Honey, you are going to be a dad soon. It’s positive. Finally!” then I called him up. (He was at Shangri-la for a conference at that time.)

What was his reaction? He sounded so happy. I could imagine him smiling from ear to ear. When he came home, he hugged me tightly. Then he set up a happy hour in the barracks.

When is your due date? November 8, 2009.

Do you have any morning sickness? No, I don’t. My mom said I take this smooth pregnancy after her.

Do you want a boy or girl? I want a girl while hubby wants a baby boy.

Do you know what you’re having? No, not yet.

Do you plan on a natural or medicated birth? Natural but if I can’t take the labor pains, I will take epidural.

Are you scared about labor? Yes. Super. What if I can’t push the baby out? Heaven forbid.

Do you think you will cry when you see the baby for the first time? Yes, I'm 101% sure of it.

Who is going to be with you? I want my mother, my father, my husband, and my two sisters who are RN’s to be with me inside the delivery room. I need an army of support. LOL.

Are you going to video tape it? Yes, that would be exciting!

Do you know what you will say to the baby when you first hold it? No clue. I am waiting for that moment!

Do you have a name picked out? Not yet but I like names starting with M and J, like Maisie Jade (precious jewel).

Is your baby going to be named after anyone? No. Though I want a greek or latin name but hubby wants something modern and unique like Forecastle Hatch. What?!

What do you think the baby will be a "daddy’s girl/boy" or a "mommy’s girl/boy"? Mommy's boy/girl- totally mommy's boy/girl!

Saturday, March 14, 2009

My Journey to Mommyhood

It’s time for me to announce that I’m pregnant – finally!

While I was tempted to shout my happy news out from the top of a mountain after I took the home pregnancy test last Wednesday, I held it as I was afraid the two red lines were only a trick. The following day, I had an appointment with my obstetrician, Dr. Panares of Chong Hua Medical Arts, and she prescribed Anmum for my milk and Meganerv F-A for my vitamins. Yesterday, my OB sent me for an early ultrasound to know the heart rate of my baby and for various lab tests. After learning the result that my pregnancy is indeed progressing at forty days, I then shared the wonderful news with my family and friends.

They were all ecstatic, telling me what’s and what-not’s, do’s and don’ts.

Honestly, the reality that I’m gonna be a mommy in November hasn’t sunk in until minutes ago. When it did, it came as an epiphany that my life is going to change tremendously. Yet I wouldn’t exchange for anything in the world my experiences on a well-traveled road of motherhood. I am willing to be transformed from a not-so-conventional wife into a selfless mom.

Last night, I bought a book entitled Baby Love, A Pinay’s Practical Guide to Pregnancy, by Marivic Soliven Blanco and Ipat Luna, and read it in just one sitting. I liked it and it made me appreciate the essence, grace, and humor of pregnancy. Then I changed my playlist from pop to everything instrumental – guitar, sax, piano, and violin. I've heard it would keep me calm throughout my pregnancy and increase the emotional quotient of my baby as well. I also created a blog to chronicle my journey to mommyhood. It's still under construction though, but please drop by if you have time.

Well, you may wonder, how did Mark react for the “bomb” that he’s soon-to-be dad? I will tell you about it in the succeeding days.

Keep posted!